Play icon The triangle icon that indicates to play Also, this one is prime if mouth-covering is necessary. Why it works: Grinding so close to each other with minimal thrusting isn’t loud at all, says Kerner. How to do it: Lie back as she lies on top of you, face to face. Why it works: With this move, there’s less thrusting, more bobbing up and down, plus lots of eye contact so you can concentrate on keeping things quiet, says Kerner. Here, she’s able to control the rhythm by pressing up through the balls of her feet. Then, have her lower herself onto you, keeping her feet flat on the bed (or floor, or whatever).
How to do it: Prop yourself with some pillows and have your legs outstretched. Here are the seven best sex positions for getting down, quietly: LAZY MAN Silent sex can bring an intense sense of love making and can be packed with adrenaline in your mutual efforts to go unheard.
Being silent compels you to get in sync with your partner through eye contact and encouragement to be quiet, says New York City sex therapist, Ian Kerner, Ph.D. Quite the contrary, silent sex can really get things smoldering between your sheets. Whether you share a bedroom wall with your kids or you’re visiting your in-laws, there are so many reasons quiet sex can be a must.